We have come upon another Father’s Day and I have very mixed emotions, as I have had for a very long time on this day.

First and foremost, I am proud to be known as Allison and Mary’s Dad.  They are college graduates, preparing to take on the world.  Allison’s wedding is coming soon.

When your daughters grow into adults it is a very good feeling as a parent to know somehow you played your part as a Dad to get them there.  My twin daughters have grown into outstanding young women.  I will add that their Mom had a very large part in that.

So, I celebrate Father’s Day with a great deal of joy.  I plan to wear that new shirt from my daughters as a Father’s Day gift quite proudly.

But there is another part of Father’s Day for me.  22 years ago, less than 2 months after Allison and Mary were born, my Dad died after a long battle with cancer.

For many years, the sadness was there.  But as time has gone by, I have been able to see all the hurt and the pain lessen .  Even though my Dad may be gone, he left so much for me and my 5 siblings.  He taught us so much about life.  That lives on.  Dad is with me now in that way, and always will be with me.

So, Happy Father’s Day to all Dads reading this.  To all of you with fathers, cherish the time you have with your Dad.  It is time you will always remember.