
Recently, tens of thousands of us crowded downtown Fishers for our pre-Fourth of July event — the parade down the Nickel Plate District, the drone show (delayed by weather to July 31), the fireworks that closed out Spark Fishers and, this year, the nation’s Semiquincentennial. For one summer day, the city looked like the answer to a worry that has been building across the country for two decades: that Americans have stopped gathering.
The worry is not imaginary. The Bureau of Labor Statistics released its 2025 American Time Use Survey last month, and the trend line is hard to miss. The average American now spends about 35 minutes a day socializing and communicating in person, down from 41 minutes in 2015 and roughly 45 minutes in 2003. On any given day in 2025, only 30 percent of us did any in-person socializing at all — down from 38 percent a decade earlier.
Young people have pulled back the furthest. Fifteen-to-24-year-olds who once spent close to an hour a day hanging out with others now spend a little over half that. Writer Derek Thompson has called it “the anti-social century,” and the health data explains why anyone in public life is paying attention. The U.S. Surgeon General’s 2023 advisory declared loneliness a public-health epidemic, estimating that about half of American adults report feeling lonely and that chronic isolation raises the risk of early death by roughly 29 percent — comparable, the report noted, to smoking 15 cigarettes a day. Gallup found about one in five adults feeling lonely on a given day, and AARP reported last year that four in ten adults 45 and older now describe themselves as lonely, up from about a third in 2010.
Some causes are structural, not personal. A 2025 University of Colorado Boulder study documented the steady loss of “third places” — the libraries, coffee shops, museums and houses of worship where neighbors used to run into one another. Bigger homes, bigger TVs, food-delivery apps and phones that hold a whole social world have made staying in easier than ever. Teens now average close to five hours a day on social apps, Gallup reports.
But the full picture is more complicated than a straight line down — and that is where a week like last week matters. Recent time-use data showed Americans watching less television than at any point in a decade and, notably, spending less time alone than during the pandemic years. Adults have clawed back some of the in-person time they lost after 2020, even if teenagers have not. And we are still willing to show up for things we care about: Live Nation reported about 159 million people attended its events in 2025, up 5 percent, and a Deloitte survey found 61 percent of Americans had gone to a live event in the previous six months.
Fishers looks a lot like that second story. The Saturday Farmers Market, now in its 2026 season at the Nickel Plate Amphitheater, draws more than 80 vendors and ranks sixth in the state. Spark Fishers fills days each June. The Fourth of July still empties living rooms and fills streets.
The national data is a real warning: connection is not automatic anymore, and for our kids especially, it is slipping. But warnings are not verdicts. The 35-minute average describes ordinary days — and last week reminded us we still know how to make extraordinary ones. The question for our 251st year is whether Fishers can carry a little of the Spark Fishers and Fourth-of-July habits into the quiet Tuesdays in between.








